While I am an obsessed fan of the Sex and the City series and movies along with all things fashion and beauty. Not everyone feels the same. Although most have not seen any of the episodes or movies, a lot of us fanatics of beauty, fashion, and relationship issues can relate to a lot of the story line. One of my favorite conversations between the ladies was about SSB. This stands for Secret Single Behavior. Which is defined as: things you do when your alone at home that you wouldn’t want your boyfriend to see you do. Now for, me narrowing these things down are tough lol. While I have to decide which activities to list I asked my two favorite girls in the world what their SSBs are: my sisters!!! Now let me introduce you to these ladies that way you can match an “SSB” with a face.
My oldest sister, Toya, the calm normal one. Single divorced mother of two amazing kids. Both kids are in every sport imaginable so she is extremely busy and barely have time alone so her SSB is very rare to her.
Now lets get into it shall we. Lets start with Toya: her SSB is laying around the house watching tv in her house coat with long non matching socks
My youngest sister, Traci, the rebel/ mom’s rock star. Single college student. In her last year to her bachelors degree, woohoooo!!! Work full time, school full time and live by herself. Total catch but her SSB is essential to her sanity and shall NEVER be interrupted. lol
Traci: Eating, taking naps, and watching tv with no plans of functioning in the real world.
now on to me, the girly girl/beauty addict: I like to roam around the house in a fresh pair of pajamas, look through fashion and home magazines marking the pages up of my favorite things with a black permanent marker, and watch reruns of bad TV, cooking shows, or youtube beauty or fitness videos.
SSB is different or some what similar with different people. while some like to lounge around and other like to “eat a stack of saltines with jelly on them standing up in my kitchen reading fashion magazines” (carrie bradshaw). All of our weird behaviors are ours and what gets us through a sometimes hectic week. It’s what keeps us going, a moment of disconnect.
Comment below your SSBs!!!
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